There are alot of things people choose to do with their free time. From sports to collecting, from art to working out. The possibilities are endless. Even two people with the same passion don't seem to go about it the same way. And what good is living if you can't do something that brings you a little slice of happy?
So what is my "thing" you say? Why I am a gamer. Ever since my college years I have played one mmo or another. My current one is Lotro. I am not ashamed to be a thrity-something kid at heart that loves playing a game with freinds. My wife on the other hand finds it hard to see just what I see in this. And to this I say "To each his own". I find some of the things other people do as a waste of time, but hey, if they are happy good for them.
Everyone does their "thing" to get away from the daily grind. And really that's what it is for. Everyone needs a little something to make it all seem ok. Most people you see that always seem down and bitter just has not found their "thing" yet. Give them time they will get there. And nothing in the world makes someone happier than you taking a little time and supporting what they like to do. Just a little understanding and show of interest in what they do will go a long way.
Just give them a little of your time and care about what they love and they will go out of their way to do the same for you. It is a cycle that feeds itself and will only make things better.
And for times when you may not get what someone is into, just ask and listen. I am sure they would love to share it with you.
